Everything in the world has its spirit, and every life possesses its unique energy field. In our everyday life, we should respect each individual’s energy space, avoiding unnecessary disturbance. More importantly, we need to establish a line of self-defense to keep external interferences from affecting our tranquility. Each person is born with tasks and paths to follow, and it’s crucial to rein in excessive enthusiasm and refrain from meddling too much in others’ life trajectories and karmic entanglements, which can reduce unnecessary burdens and is a responsible approach to oneself and others.
In our lives, you might often encounter situations like: family members interfering excessively in your life and work in the name of love; friends frequently seeking help under the guise of friendship and feeling dissatisfied when you are unable; a partner may ask for too much because of love, leaving you drained. Renowned psychologist Abraham Maslow once said, “The root of all human suffering is the lack of a sense of boundaries.” Keen insight means recognizing that each person has their own road to travel, their own hurdles to overcome. Trying to solve others’ problems not only drains you but can also bring about loss. Remember that even with closeness, it is still necessary to maintain a proper distance. Once boundaries are crossed, you will take on others’ karma and eventually wear yourself out.
If you are surrounded by negative people, over time, even your fortune may be affected. Therefore, defining boundaries and maintaining inner stability is crucial. This not only protects against the negative emotions of the outside world but also helps keep your personal energy pure. Keeping a positive emotional state will make the journey of life smoother. Protecting your own magnetic field in interactions allows you to attract higher quality friends.
In modern society, we often meet two kinds of people: one easily disturbed by external forces, sensitive to any small ripple, full of troubles; the other hardly affected by the outside world, continuously maintaining a positive outlook. Needless to say, the latter is more adept at achieving goals and pursuing happiness. The difference lies in the strength of the shielding power. We must learn to filter the idle chatter we encounter daily, choosing to ignore the unimportant talk so that we can confidently move forward at our own pace. We must be resolute in the path we choose, convinced that becoming a better version of ourselves is sufficient. There’s no need to overly concern ourselves with the opinions or evaluations of others, as this allows us to avoid being troubled by outside noise and focus solely on our life’s path.
Japanese management guru Inamori Kazuo once pointed out: “The blueprint you envision in your mind will determine the direction of the rest of your life.” A person’s inner thoughts and perspective on themselves and the external world have a profound effect on their life. Maintaining a positive thought pattern not only brings good fortune but also leads to encounters with more favorable people and experiences, as positive thinking always attracts those whose energies match yours. When a person learns to treat themselves well, enrich their mind, understand and care for their feelings, and maintain an upward growth mindset, they can experience more beauty in life. Positive thoughts are an expression of energy, capable of creating a strong “positive magnetic field,” whereas negative and pessimistic thinking might generate a “negative magnetic field,” leading to a life filled with disappointment and a loss of hope and motivation. Therefore, fostering a positive way of thinking undoubtedly has a decisive impact on an individual’s attitude and fate.
Your positive magnetic field will ultimately help you shield against misfortune and usher in good fortune.
